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Concern
Posted by J. on July 05, 2008 at 06:38:26:
Hi Randy,
Just had a question about a man's pre-cum. In my life I've had my share of lovers and I've come across something that is different with my current lover. He's 40 (I'm 42) and is rock hard and keeps going like the energizer bunny and has reason to make his counterparts 20 years younger jeaulous. He does cum frequently, but he absolutely does not produce any pre-cum which I love and helps with lubrication. We have a great amount of foreplay before penetration, so I don't understand this. I don't want to ask him as I feel it would hurt his feelings and everything else is great sexually. Can you possibly explain why this is happening ? Love the board, you rock!
Webmaster Reply:
Ha. Me rock? If you saw me sitting here in my house-coat, you would retract that statement! Pre-cum varies from guy to guy, and the amount diminishes as we age. Some guys do not produce any, or produce such a small amount that it is not discernible. This is an individual body function, so that is simply how he is built. You cannot increase the amount. So, you will just have to use lots of lube. It sounds as if he is pretty spectacular in spite of this small drawback.Randy