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Grr....
Posted by R. on July 03, 2008 at 07:18:45:
So Randy...this is a weird for me but here goes. I'm 18 years old, and although I'm young, I've had my fair share of experiences. In these I have come to find that I am a bit of a masochist, and I am very, very submissive. I am completely ok with this finding, but my current boyfriend seems to veer away from anything that may hurt me or cause me pain. Although I think it is nice that he cares...is there anyway to explain to him that the point of my little...fetish? I guess, is that I do like being hurt a littl, and being forced around? I dnt know what to tell him, I guess u cld say I'm too shy to explain to him what I want to happen. Any advice?
please?
Webmaster Reply:
I'm not sure that masochism counts as a fetish, but any sort of sexual preference such as this has the potential to put a partner off. Not everyone can accept this behaviour. I think it's fine to discuss with him what you would like (and what HE would like), but don't expect enthusiastic support. See what he is comfortable doing. Spanking is acceptable for most people, and he may go for something simple like that, or gentle bondage. Be prepared to compromise - sometimes do things the way you like, and sometimes do things the way he likes.Randy