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r/t question trauma
Posted by D. on June 29, 2008 at 07:30:24:
this is for the victom with questio 6/27. I am now 35 the survivor of long term rape in early youth. I too had trust issues when I began having wanted sex and even became frightened during the act. I did tell my partners because face it you wouldn’t be with them and wanting tro partake if you didn’t already trust them. telling gave me the safety my husband learned signs that I was having flashbacks or insecurities and we worked threw them together.
over time you will let go of that felling with love and support but yopu should consider group therapy half the battle is knowing your not alone and being with others in various stages of healing is very theraputic.
honey sex and "making love was ment to be fulfilling and pleasurable. your man loves you and wants to pleasure you not hurt you. give him the chance to help you heal. good luck there is an end to the pain god love you
Webmaster Reply:
Thanks for sharing your experience. It will be very helpful.Randy