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My Concern
Posted by A. on June 29, 2008 at 07:25:12:
Hi, Im concerned about something thats been killing me. When having sex with my boyfriend we always use protection (condoms) this time we bought it with spermicide. When we finished we realized that cum was all over but i didnt know if it was mine or his, Im im afraid i might get pregnant. I was on my weak fertile days but Im not sure...
Is there a posibility that cum can spill from the condom and may be pregnant by it?
Webmaster Reply:
Yes and yes. Condoms can break, especially if they are not applied properly or if there is a lack of lubrication. Usually, the male can feel when they break, and obviously, should stop and replace it. Assuming that the condom did not break in this case, semen could leak out the bottom of it if he did not leave a vacuum in the tip to hold the fluid OR if he came more than once without changing condoms. Also, a loose-fitting condom is prone to leakage at the base. So, it could be any of those factors. You will just have to monitor the situation. One other point - do NOT use condoms with spermicide. Tests have shown that it doesn't work and all it does is irritate the vaginal lining, making you more prone to infections.Randy