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Penis went down
Posted by B. on June 27, 2008 at 07:06:28:
Hello, me and my girl friend where having sex the other night and I had a little problem the sex between us is amazing it is like I have never had before there is something different between us it like we already know what each other is thinking. when we have sex it not just for 30 min are 1hr it for a lengthily time. her having several orgasm and me getting off several times. the problem came in last night I am 35 years old and this has never happened to me before. we where having sex we both hd orgasums than went back for 2nd round we where in to in for about 30min and all of a sudden my penis went down it would not even come close to getting back up. we tried everything and nothing. what could be the cause of this problem is it something I should be worried about? and what could I do to prevent this form happening again. you advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks
Webmaster Reply:
Hey, I've been through this myself, and it's a common experience for males. You are at an age when one starts to have occasional difficulties with an erection. This is a natural part of aging. The valve that holds blood in the penis, hence causing an erection, often develops a slow leak over time. Blood starts to slowly drain out and the erection collapses, like a balloon with a tiny hole in it. What you will find now is that for the next few times, things will be the way they used to be, and then it will happen again. As you get older, it will happen more often. Two things you can do: a cock ring is a great booster for initial erectile problems; and you will have to alter your expectations, i.e. consider yourself lucky with one orgasm and focus on other sexual pleasures, such as oral and getting her off. In short, there is nothing unusual about your 'mechanics' - it is the natural course of events.Randy