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Re: heart problems hard on problems
Posted by B. on June 23, 2008 at 06:43:47:
Let me share a story with you....
I met a wonderful man about 16 years ago. We have been "kicking it" all these years. I have learned so much from him and we have the most incredible satistifing sex.
He has never had an erection with me. He was diagnosed with diabetes in his early 30's and never treated it. By 40 his ability to get an erection was over.
We used an pump for a while however he really couldn't get hard enough for penetration. Being creative I found that I could make him ejaculate if I gave him oral or a hand job with him standing against a wall.
He is totally into giving me oral and over the years we have bought toys but even today his hands are as good or even better than any penis I have ever had! I never knew what a multiple orgasm was until I met him.
At this point in our relationship he rarely even has me touch him he has so little feeling below the waist. I ask him why is he even interested. He says I totally turn him on and he orgasms when I kiss him or caress him when he performs on me. After all these years he is creative, tender, loving or rough, whatever I desire him to be. He thinks I get better all the time but I must admit that it's His interest in sex that keeps our sex life alive.
Sex isn't over just because the penis doesn't get hard.(unless you want it to be) If a man really wants to be sexually active and give and receive pleasure he needs to educate himself to the fact that "dick in vagina" is only one of a million ways to have GREAT sex. (I think my friend WROTE the karma sutra! )
PS: over the years my friend has had a leg amputated and bypass surgery. He is still going strong! If you have the will there is always a way.
Webmaster Reply:
What a fabulous note! Thanks so much for sharing your experience.Randy