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Re: Vaginal orgasm
Posted by R. on June 09, 2008 at 07:07:07:
Thanks Randy for continuing to help with what seems to be a regular question... as it DOES take awhile for the facts to sink in, that male and female bodies are NOT perfectly aligned for the same pleasures at the same time.
If I had a dollar for every guy who said intercourse would be great (even though I'm a virgin), I'd be rich. When I tell guys the 70-80% female statistic, they look at me like I'm crazy. Of course, THEY can get any woman to orgasm through intercourse... they can over rule Mother Nature (good luck with that).
I may have never had intercourse, but I know from doing my own "homework" that I will be in that 70-80% female population! Too bad teen girls everywhere don't know this fact, as it really takes the immediacy out of "going all the way"... females have to be ready to not orgasm and not be upset if intercourse is "all for the guy".
Hopefully some day I'll find a guy who has a clue about female anatomy, or is at least willing to listen above his own ego. (Unfortunately, the Virgin word turns every guy into William the Conqueror and completely kills the relationship)
Thanks again...I know repeating your message must get boring, but it's over riding plenty of years of bad sex-ed theories we've all picked up.
-R
Webmaster Reply:
Thanks for the feedback. Yes, it would be VERY helpful if sex-ed would teach both females and males how bodies actually work. What a concept!Randy